Agreed with @Kaldor. If you can't play without destroying someone's moon(s), you need to find a different game. V-Mode is essential and it does not need to be changed, but shortened instead in speed universes.
Also, anyone saying that "people should be forced to stay out of V-Mode for any amount of time once they've de-activated it" should also find a different game. I like having the ability to turn on V-Mode the very next second after turning it off. If I can't turn on V-Mode at my will, then it's a useless feature and might as well remove it for everyone.
And if you're so insistent on destroying others' moons to boost your ego, please let us turn moons to bunkers, so it can be a fair fight.